Words left unspoken...

It's joyful to me to see a life pull up out of a sad situation.

People walk past us each day.  Sometimes we are blessed to meet them and learn their story.  Sometimes people trust you into their story.  They share their story and bring you in to be a part of it.  

Such is life.

What about those that love so much and listen so much but feel like their mouth has been sewn shut.  They want to share and let others know but life won't let them.  Their mind won't allow the memories to surface and when or if they do...the story sounds...untrue.  Unreal to come from this person.  This person sits back and listens to others memories and wonders how it must be to have such a sweet thing.  

Sometimes God whispers that memories aren't always a sweet thing...memories sometimes hurt. 

I know a precious woman that has a horrific memory.  She is so lovely, so happy.  She is so dear to my heart.  She is so loved by her husband.  She deserves this and so much more.  I just wonder...why does she get to remember and others don't?  

Is this a blessing or not? 

Once in survival mind mode it's hard to get out.  One's memory will blur things that hurt, that are bad but no need to delete. To this person it is quite frustrating.  No one person can understand.  Keeping a journal is suggested to help.  Only problem is you have to remember to write in it and then remember to go to it to recall information.  This becomes easier with time.  To the deep in heart, all this is surface stuff.  The deep in heart wonders why the memory was kept.  This person kind of wonders if the memory ever came would she wish it would just go away.   

Looking at others and how they have worked hard in one way or another to get out of a bad situation

makes me smile.  It also frustrates me when others blame their "situation" for the things that they have done....basically not standing up for what they have done.  This is a huge irritant of mine.  I know 

people personally that have said that they treated their kids like crud and yelled at them b/c they didn't

feel loved and were yelled at like that when they were young. Wrong!  You blame your mouth on the fact that you let it blow...You might have had a bad example BUT we all have a choice to do right and wrong.  

Do good.  DO right.  It's not hard!  

I don't understand why people make it so complicated.

What happens if you don't?  What happens if you slip?  This is not rocket science...

Humble yourself.  Apologize and serve you consequence.  Plain and simple.

When you are right with yourself, with the world, and with God....you have the peace to 

UNWIND:)